Cooperation: How to get Your Kids Onboard
Updated: 9 hours ago
For many parents and caregivers, the biggest task of the day is getting out of the house in the morning. Getting children dressed or fed, and simply making it to work and school on time is the feat of the day. Beyond this, grocery shopping, meal prep, and laundry are often done in the presence of the little ones.
Power of Play
Beginning each day in a good mood is essential. Starting the day with cuddles, tickles or play sets a great tone and encourages your child's cooperation. Try turning off screens so connection can be made without distraction. Make dressing and gathering items a game, and give plenty of praise.
Avoid the Bribe
A bribe removes the authority from you and gives it to the child. It basically communicates to them that their relationship rests on control and extortion. Sometimes having a reward on hand can reinforce cooperation. The difference between a bribe and a reward is surprise. Always wait to see the response you want to reinforce and then offer the prize. The prize is always yours to give or refuse, and children do not bargain for the prize.
Gain Trust
Do not ever give away your authority. At the end of the day, you are accountable for your child. Make sure they understand you take your charge seriously and communicate how valuable they are to you. Safety issues are non-negotiable, and they must know that. When they know you are invested in their well being, they will trust you more and tend to cooperate for their own benefit.
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